18 February

Q&A

2002, 2011

I like to think that the answers to most, if not all, of my questions are in my journals from the last 35 years, but today I was fortunate enough to ask the question on the same day I answered it, nine years earlier.

I’d been trying to figure out how to post something – a poem, a photo, an essay, even one good sentence – here most days, which means sorting through all the possibilities far enough in advance that if any modification is necessary – and it usually is – I can give that the time it requires.

I was reading everything I’d written on 18 February over the years, and I came across this note from 2002: I can scarcely believe how easy it is to clearly state what I want and then go about discovering that I’ve done it, gotten it, often beyond my wildest dreams.

I realized that the one thing I hadn’t done was clearly state what I wanted, which I proceeded to do. I wouldn’t say I’m beyond my wildest dreams quite yet, but I have a plan, which is more than I could say yesterday.

17 February

Notes for a Pair of Refrigerator Magnets

1991, 2009

What I did got me here

but it won't get me past here.

14 February

Ferocious Kind of Love

Tarnow, Poland, 2009

It’s February 14th and all those fuzzy and shiny symmetrical hearts remind me of my friend who’s going to have valve-replacement surgery in a couple of days. We’re nine time zones apart, which doesn’t seem to make a lot of difference. We’ve always talked on the phone, even when I could bicycle to his house.

When I called him yesterday, he said, “It’s a pig valve.” It wasn’t a statement I was expecting to hear, perhaps not a statement anyone is ever expecting to hear.

“A what?”

I may have been a little sluggish on the uptake, but he wasn’t. He said “pig” again in English, then repeated “pig” in Russian. I knew he was going to ask me how to say pig in Polish. I remembered how to say “pork,” but not pig. My students get the English mixed up, too, they assured me when I asked them later.

When I heard the expression, “Free as a wild pig,” in Polish, I pictured the emancipated swine flapping unlikely wings and getting effectively, if perhaps not gracefully, airborne, waving goodbye to whatever ties pigs down.

Another of Poland’s porcine residents is known as dzik. Everyone I’ve spoken to here can recite a children’s rhyme about the dzik’s bad disposition and sharp tusks, and the strategy of climbing a tree should one have the misfortune to encounter the beast on an otherwise pleasant outing.

I renamed Valentine’s Day “Javelina Day” a while back. The words aren’t quite anagrams, but they’re sneaking up on it. I doubted that the creature also known as a peccary had ever appeared on a greeting card associated with affection. But the nearsighted, diffident javelina may soon be winding up its stint as the antidote to Valentine’s Day.

Suddenly, I’m picturing a dzik with little lacy hearts impaled on its fearsome tusks as it rampages through displays of chocolates and champagne. Lately, it’s a ferocious kind of love I’m looking for.

13 February

Comparison and contrast

2006

Fifteen years ago

it was a drizzly

February,

my first night

in my new place,

exactly like

this time around.

Back then

it was a garage

apartment coiling

out room by room

from a triangular

closet in the center.

This time

it's a second-storey

corner studio

in an apartment building

that was once

a church.

Fifteen years ago

it was a beer I wanted

more than anything,

and my new house key

was the only means of ingress.

I don't remember if I got

the bottle open,

but I didn't need stitches.

This time around

it was dilly beans

I craved.

I tried boiling water,

the back of a knife,

a sharp rap upside-down

on the counter,

but that jar might as well

have been a fortress.

What the orange

rubber gloves

were doing

hanging on the trap

under the sink,

or why it crossed my mind

to look there,

I may never know,

but I'm hoping

it's a trend.

12 February

Damage Control

2006

I don't recall her name.

I do remember I admired her

as much for inviting her best girlfriends

to the corner table at the Alibi

at eleven in the morning,

where she kept the pitchers coming

while we match serial numbers

and taped the torn pieces back together,

as for ripping up all the twenty-dollars bills

he tried to bribe her with

the night before while he looked on

in queasy disbelief.

29 January

Daulatabad Fort, India, 2010.

21 January

Get used to it


The salmon is chilly
by the time it’s traveled
all the way across the town
from the rally at the union hall
to the downpour on this picket line,
but it tastes like freedom,
and I swallow its stubborn flesh,
suck its determined bones,

then stumble from the brief warmth
of the strike trailer
into the shock of sudden night,
the dissonance of three
big brilliant picket umbrellas
pitched like circus tents
on the long blackness
of asphalt glittering
beneath the only streetlight.

Under the rain I begin to compose
the photograph I cannot capture,
I say the words out quiet:
“Remember, remember everything,”
then dive beneath
the startling blue and white
pie slices of Al’s umbrella.
“It’s a nice picture,”
I tell him, by way of explanation.
“Well, get used to it,” he says.

Twenty years ago today in Hoquiam, Washington, USA, the Association of Western Pulp and Paper Workers’ strike for equal pay for equal work against ITT Rayonier was ending in defeat. I had taken comfort on that picket line for the long months of my mother’s illness and on the night of her death. I knew it was time to go when we burned the furniture from the picket shack at the Ontario Street gate, then tore that rude structure down, but I wasn’t ready. I could still taste the chilly salmon, still see those umbrellas against the asphalt in the rain. I had gotten used to it, then it was gone.